No other aspects of Female Dominance (FemDom) are as powerful and role defining as the practice of pegging: taking your man up the ass with a strap-on dildo. Combined with a proper discipline regiment it will turn your man into an obedient puppy sub-boy in no time.
In a Femdom relation the use of a strapon on a male partner is generally considered one of the most important step to turn him into a proper submissive. The dominant role passes radically from the man to the woman.
For couple, the relationship dynamics completely change once he is underneath and you are fucking him with your strap-on cock. As he bend before your strapon he is fully submitting to you. Pegging is as much a mental experience as it is a physical one.
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For your man, in the context of a D/s relation, the idea of being taken up the ass by you, a woman, is the ultimate form of humiliation and submissiveness. It is a complete loss of control; something that many heterosexual men are not used to. It is counter to all the ideals of masculinity that we have been raised to accept.
The humiliation is often compounded by the fact that the pegging frequently stimulates his prostate (the P-spot), which not only may cause an intense feeling of ‘pleasurable discomfort’ but, under the right circumstances, force him into involuntary ejaculation and orgasm.
Yet, despite the discomfort and the humiliation, the experience is extremely arousing for your submissive man as he live the ceremonial consummation of his total submission to you.
If he has never been pegged before, you need to break him in slowly as you train his ass to take your strap-on. You also need to peg him frequently (at least 2-3 times a week) because, his asshole will naturally tighten back between fuckings. Most importantly you need to do it often enough to get him in the right frame of mind. He needs to expect it and know it’s going to happen when and how you want it, whether he likes it or not.
Keep in mind, as you start training him, that each time you transition up to a bigger, thicker dildo, it will be like his hole is a pegging virgin all over again.
Start out with a small, thin dildo. Once you feel that he is taking it easily you can move up to a medium size one. For a few weeks alternate between both the small and the medium size one.
When he gets to the point where he can take your medium size girlcock without any problem , it’s time to introduce him to the big one. Be patient, but determined. He will feel some discomfort. That’s normal while his asshole opens up and adjusts to the new size.
After that, you just alternate, depending on your mood and the kind of experience you want him to have.
The small dildo is the one you use when you get the urge to fuck him without warning; bend him over and just take his sweet ass. That kind of spontaneous action is important to do every once in a while because it reinforces in his mind that you own his ass and can take it and fuck it anytime you want.
The medium size dildo is for general fucking and the one you should use most often. Once you’ve trained his ass, it will go in quite easily. You should be able to fuck him good and hard with this one.
The big strap-on cock is for those occasions when you really want him to feel your authority. When you want him to know that he’s getting fucked all the way. This should be a surprise and a special treat, just a few times a month. It is the girlcock that embodied your total control over him. It should be the one he fears but that he is still willing to beg for, because he want to please his Mistress ….. you.
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