1- Strapon sex is just a new trendy fashion created by sextoys vendor!
Quite the opposite actually. Strapon have been used by humanity for ages. Historical artifact from ancient China and from the Sumerian civilisation show the use of phalic shaped toys with a rope circling the waist to hold it in place. It is not yet clear if those where used between women or for male penetration by a female partner. While not as old as the basic dildo, who even predate the invention of agriculture, the strap-on has been around for quite some time.
In western cultures the strapon has been confine mostly to erectile disfonction victims,lesbian and BDSM femdom for the first half of the 20th century. Since the sexual revolution of the 60’s the use of strapon dildo has been on the rise among heterosexual couple as well.
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2- Strapon wearer have no pleasure!
Totally false! We will cover this in many upcomming articles but the reality is quite simple: Using a strapon can be a very pleasurable experience. A properly ajusted harness coupled with teh right dildo will provide a lot of stimulation. Add the mental aspect of being the one doing the penetration and you end up with a very arousing mix.
3- Strapon anal sex is always painful!
Another myth in need of busting. Anal sex, regardless of the penetration implement does not need to be painful at all. Just start slowly and use plenty of lube (remember that the anus does not provide any lubrification).
4- Strapon are only use by lesbians and sadistic Mistresses!
While the porn industry is still showing mostly lesbian and dominating female as strapon user, in real life they have been overtaken by the heterosexual couples in the last few decades. Strapon are now the second most popular sextoys on the market, just below the rabbit vibe.
5- Only sub men and dom women enjoy pegging!
Strapon sex by heterosexual couple, also refer to as “bend over boyfriend” or “Pegging”, is gaining in popularity. From a small fringe phenomenon in the 80’s it is now the most common “alternate” sexual practice.
6- A man can turn gay if he likes being pegged!
Not at all. Some gay men enjoy anal intercourse; others don’t. Gay men also enjoy holding hands, kissing, massage, genital fondling and oral sex, and heterosexual men don’t shrink from these erotic activities. Sexual orientation — straight, gay or bisexual — has nothing to do with the kinds of sex acts you enjoy. Many men who are 100% heterosexual enjoy having their anus massaged, fingered and penetrated — including penetration with strap-ons. Heterosexual men who enjoy recipient strap-on play are not secretly gay; they are heterosexual men who enjoy adventurous sex.
7- A lesbian who enjoy strapon sex is really craving for a real cock!
Totally wrong. The female body was design, by nature, to react positively to penetrative sexual intercourse. Being a lesbian does not make a woman some kind of alien with a different biological makeup. Just because a girl like the feeling of something inside that doesn’t have to include having a man’s body attached to it.
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